Corvallis Gazette-Times from Corvallis, Oregon • 3

Gazette-Times, Corvallis, Oregon, Friday, October 14, 1960 Red Cross Ti octal Dear Ann Landers I have a problem i lMJ Tillicum Dancing Club Will Open Autumn Season at Adair Saturday CALENDAR Friday, October 14 7:30 Senior Citizens club at the City Hall. Saturday, October 15 9:30 a.m. Ellsworth Woman's Relief Corps bazaar and cake sale, 130 South Third. .11:15 a.m. Delta Delta Delta alumnae pledge luncheon with Mrs.

Joseph Roe, 721 North 35th. 0 12:30 p.m. St, Mary's Parish luncheon in Eugene. 1 p.m.. Mavericks leave West House 'for trip to Lloyd Center and skating party.

-r IS: Dear Ann Landers: I'm 38, self-employed and have been going with "a beautiful girl for three years. .1 want to get married -and have a family before I'm too old. She refuses to accept ring until she gets "a few things out of her system." One thing I admire about Rosctta is her honesty. She has gone with several men besides me but shi always tells me about it. Last year she was seeing a married man.

She said knew it was wrong but it was somthing she had to do. At present she's interested (mildly) in a fellow who is seven years younger than she is. She said she's always Wanted to date a younger fellow and once she gets tired of that'll l( 1 1 I XH I irvs i I i 1 i i xif i it, Tonight she broke a date on me you think I- should, be patient should 1 have'a- ord with TROUBLED. Dear Troubled: By all means have a word with her "Goodbye." Dear Ann: My life would be much happier if my daughter- mil jtFmr i ilv II "ojr 1 -r I in-law behaved more like a lady Xe are not wealthy, although because 1 can get more mileage who ever lived. When our son Gilbert married Rcna helped them get started.

Their home is as nice HiiiW i better. We decided that would be our wedding gift and trom then on they were on their own. Last week my daughter-in-law told me she was pregnant and added "I know you'll want to buy the baby's furniture. We'll pick it out and send you the bill. "I was dumfounded and said nothing.

When" do children stop chiseling off their parents and in-laws? DRAINED Dear Drained: Some never start depending on bow they've been reared, and whether or not works. Your answer to Rena should have been, "Go ahead and buy the baby's furniture and pay for it. We'll decide what we want to give the baby when the time comes." Parents who allow themselves to be drained have themselves to blame. Os 1 II GeT SET to go with this younger fellow. and let her have her fling or and less like a leech.

people think we are loaded out of a dollar- than anyone as ours and their furniture is home of Mrs. Earl Chapman, 545 will meet Monday at p.m. at th Sycamore. p.m. Mrs.

V. H. Foster will Kings Road: Topic will "Short interested should phone Mrs. Cole Swearengin, PL Roy Mahan, (12 North Fourth, a 7 pound girl at 9:24 p.m. October 13.

Tools and Equipment- Marfan De. 231 S. 3rd The first dance of the fall season of the Tillicum Dancing club will be an event of Saturday, October with a social hour at 8:30 p.m. and dancing at Unruly Boy Seeks Mom'i Attention (Q) "I am a widow with a 4-year-old son. I have lived alone with him since he was 3 months old.

He is well behaved, active and normal in every, way. My big problem with him is showing off in front of company. Whenever anyone comes (including his grandmother, whom he sees almost every and my fiance) he will do anything to try to gain attention, whether it is throwing things, screaming, fighting or just crying at the least thing. He is not jealous of my fiance and gets plenty of love and attention from both of us. I have had his playmates over and all he does is try to destroy his toys and the- house.

I have talked II over calmly with him (about his showing off) and I have punished him. Nothing helps. When we are alone he is. well behaved." Mrs. M.H.S.

(A) If your -little boy is well behaved when he is alone with assume he is. not a generally upset, nervous or hyperactive, difficult child. Our guess would be that because he has no father, he has become more than normally attached to you. When he is with you he has you all to himself and feels that all your concern and interest are for him exclusively. This is also 1 likely to occur with only children.

When others are around, however, he no longer has you just for himself and is no longer the center of attention. He must share you with others no matter who they happen to be. Thus, he carries on to call attention to himself and to prevent anybody, else from' getting your attention. other' words, he wants to monopolize you. We would suggest that if possible, you send him to a good nursery school in the fall.

In a group of this sort he will gradually learn that he cannot demand all the attention, that he must learn to share people as well as things, and that he does not have to behave in an outlandish manner to gain his share of attention. You should also make it clear that you will not accept this kind of behavior. Simply remove him from the room when he behaves in an unruly way and tell him he can come back when he is ready to act nicely. Be sure, how ever, that now and when you remarry he always knows you love him dearly and even though your attention must be divided your affection for him is always the same. Your problems about your chil dren will be answered through this column.

Write CHILD CARE in care of The Corvallis Gazette- Times. Copyright Gnral Feature Corp. (r-Child 'Cl if Dr. Ml. man M.B.

9:30. p.m. at the Adair Officers open mess. New officers are Dr. R.

Ho-' gensen, president, Philip C. Bird, vice-president, Irwin Harris, and Al Joiner, treasurer. New members this year are Mr. and' Mrs. Arthur Allen, Mr.

and Robert Berman, Mr. and Mrs. Dale Bever, Mr, and Mrs. Martin Chaves, Mr. and Mrs.

Jack Cooper; Mrr and Mrs: E.M. Dickinson. Dr. and John Lang, Col. and Mrs.

John Phillips, Capt. and Mrs. Richard Shaf-er, Mr. and Mrs. Henry Ten Pas, Mr.

and Mrs. Stan Thompson. Chairmen for" the dance are Dr. and Mrs. it.

H. Hbgensen, assisted by Mr. and Mrs. James Metzker, Dr. and Mrs.

Richard Spradling, Mr. and Mrs. John Fenner, Mr. and Mrs. Carl Berman, Mr.

and Mrs. Frank Ligon, Mr. and Mrs. Phil Small, Mr. and Mrs.

Jess Truax, Mr. and Mrs. William Caldwell, Mr. and Mrs. Joe Roe, Dr.

and Mrs. Charles Reed, Mr. and Mrs. Irwin Harris, Mr. and Mrs.

Al Joiner; and Mr Mrs. Phil Bird. and CorvallisTOPS Attend District Meet in Albany The ninth district meeting of the Mid-Willamette Valley TOPS (Take Off Pounds Sensibly) was held at the 4H club building at Albany. The Albany clubs were hosts for the session. There were 17 clubs present representing 250 members and a weight loss of 1,713 pounds for the four month period of April through August.

Crowned queen Mrs. Joe Nissen. of Curv-AU-Less TOPS, Corvallis was crowned queen of the District by; Mrs. Earl Peak, who was mistress of ceremonies. Mrs.

Nissen with a loss of 40'j pounds, had lost the most weight of any of the member in the district during the contest period. The seven top losers in the district lost a total of over 300 pounds. The Skinme Minnie TOPS club of Albanv won the traveling plaque for" having the largest weight loss per member per week. j. Songs, submitted in a song con test to select a theme -song for the Oregon State "Recognition Day" to be held in Corvallis in April, were sung during the evening.

One of the songs selec ted was "Not Just A Dream writ ten by Mrs. Erskine Arbeiter of the Meaeer Beaver TOPS Nite Club. NOT JUST A DREAM" Tune Battle Hymn of Republic Last night as I lay sleeping I was cast into a dream I saw bathing beauties marching They were like a group of queens Thev were slim lithe and lovely Then I recognized the lot The members of my club the TOPS! We will make this more than a dream We can give up pie and whipping cream We'll count calories and lose our greed Our TOPS Club will succeed! TOPS members from Corvalis ZONTA will meet Monday at 7:30 p.m. for a dessert at th Country Kitchen. The affair is a birthday observance.

Dress is informal. Veterans of Foreign Wars post no. 640 and Auxiliary meets Monday at 8 p.m. at the VFW hall. Official inspection by the district president wul be held.

FL club will meet at the North 16th, at 8 p.m. Monday. The Lettercarriers Auxiliary home of Mrs: Warren Haase; fl28 The Art and Needlecraft club will meet. Monday at 1:30 p.m. at the home of Mrs.

W. M. Atwood, 214 North Seventh." The Art and Needlecraft club will meet Monday at 1:30 at the home of Mrs. W. M.

Atwood, 214 North Seventh. Busy Thimble club will meet with Mrs. E. Hickman. 180 1 Hopkins lane, Monday at 1:30 I co-hostess.

Theta Alumnae To Fete Pledges With Dessert The alumnae of Kappa Alpha Theta will entertain the new pledge class of Beta Epsilon chapter at a dessert on Monday, October 17, at 7:30 p.m. at the home of Mrs. John Wolfe, 3235 Cijpjt drive. The history of the local chapter, with entertaining sidelights, will be presented by Mrs. Roy Keene and Mrs.

Hazel Hayslip. All alumnae not previously contacted may make reservations by phoning Mrs. Hayslip at PL 36723 or or Mrs. Clell Conrad at PL 3-7098. Dean Jameson To Celebrate 90th Birthday The 90th birthday of Dean Kate Jameson will be celebrated October 15, at an open house to be given from 3 p.m.

on in the afternoon and from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. The event will be given at Dean Jameson's home, 3910 West Hills road, by her daughter-in-law, Mrs, R. D. Jameson of Las Vegas, New Mexico who is visiting here, and by Dean Helen Moor.

I No invitations have been sent out as the event is planned for any of her friends who would like to attend. clubs who attended the district meeting were from Meager Beaver TOPS Nite dub. Mrs. Pat Provenchia, Mrs. Harold Johnson, Mrs.

Nina Gray, Mrs. Erskine Mrs. Alex Miller, and Mrs. Irene Pariseault. From "Slim Again" TOPS were Mrs.

Earl Peak, Mrs. John Campbell, Mrs. Ira Deep, Mrs. William Snyder, Mrs. James Dickison, Mrs.

Robert Day, Mrs. Lorenz Hardenberger, Mrs. Ivan Lehnher, Mrs. Kenneth McKay Mrs. James Sherrill, Mrs.

Ralph Jones. Mrs. Don Fergerson and Mrs. Irma Thompson. From Curv All Less TOPS, were Mrs.

Philip Magnusson, Mrs. John Lyda, Mrs. N. E. Robinson, Mrs.

Joe Nissen, Mrs. Metha Byington and Mrs. Sylvia Anderson. QUEEN OF TOPS, named at; the recent ninth district meeting of Mid-Willamette Valley TOPS clubs, is Joe Nissen of the Corvallis Curv All Less TOPS. Mrsv Nissen, pictured above, was crowned queen for losing the most weight of any member in the contest.

THE I 'AX -7 slim-Again TOPS will meet Monday morning at 10 o'clock Home Nursing Classes Start The Benton" County chapter of the American Red Cross is ottering a class in Home Nursing beginning October 19 and concluding November 9. First classes will be held October 19 in the conference room of the Benton County Health Service. 126 North Fifth. The seven 2-hour classes will be held on Mondays and Wednesdays. Morning sessions will be conducted from 9 to 11..

afternoon classes will be from 1 to 3 and evening classes from 7:30 to 9:30. The only charge is 75c for the textbook which is available only to those registered for "the course. As each class will be limited io 14 people, it is necessary to register by phoninglhe Red Cross office at PL 3-6628. The Home Nursing course is designed to teach simple nursing care to the sick in the home, to care for older persons and to promote evervdav health habits. College Folk Club Dessert Set For Monday Today (Friday) is the last day for reservations to the College Folk club fall dessert next Mon day evening, according to chair man Mrs.

Albert Leeland. Faculty Wives and women on the college staff gather each year to meet and honor newcomers to the campus. The party this year will be held in the Memor ial Union ballroom at 7:15 p.m. Newcomers have been contact ed by "big sisters" who will es cort them (o the affair. Any newcomer or previous club member who has not been contacted should call the reservations committee tonight to make arrangements to attend, Mrs.

Leeland stated. Reservation! To handle the hundreds of res ervations efficiently, an alphabetical system of telephoning accord ing to guests names has been set dp by the committee, as follows: "A through call Mrs. C. Poultort, PL 3-3277; through call Mrs. J.

F. Ligon, PL 3- 6156: through call Mrs W. W. Chilcote, PL 2-4003; through call Mrs. W.

A. Dav-ies. PL 3-7010. Following refreshments a brief oroeram will feature slides of the northwest and an explanation of College Folk club and New comers club activities planned for the year. Yearbooks will be presented to all guests, and Interest group sien-uo cards will be available, according to Mrs.

Elvia A. Dick ason. interest group chairman. Start the year right by tele phoning your reservation tonight, urged Mrs. William tngesser, res ervations chairman.

Bottle Drive Is Scheduled By Fellowship The Christian Youth Fellowship group thigh school) of the First Christian church is sponsoring a bottle drive this Saturday morn ing. Anyone who has redeemable pop bottles which they would like to have picked up should call the church office (PL 3-3712) and someone will pick them up. Proceeds from the drive, ac cording to drive chairman, Jan Carroll, will be used tor the CYr trip fund. The CYF group is try ing to raise $1200 before next summer to take a trip by chartered bus to either Canada or Cali SrstcilL Appliance and Vacuum Cleaner Repair FREE PICKUP DELIVERY 5.YV We Stock Parts For Toasters Mixers Irons Coffee Makers CLEANERS-, Wf Mack oar Vacuum Claanart Including Kirby Hoavor- U.ctroJul A4 All Othan Stover Evey Yaar Maytag A Haavar Btalar a she be fw at the home of Ira Deep, 2320 Mulkey. Baby sitting will be at the home of Mrs.

VHlIfaro Fryer, 2211 1tfulkey.v T. Kings Road extension unit will meet Monday at 7.30 p.m. at the home of Mrs. Loren Coleman, Cuts To Hot Meals." Anyone man, PL 3-6958, or Mrs. E.

B. Eastern Star Social club luncheon will be Monday at 1:30 at THE FIRST PRODUCTION of the Albany Little Theater's 1960 -6! season will be James thurber-Elliorf Neugent's comedy, "The Male Animal" which opens October 19, for four night run. Pictured at the top in a scene with Dean and Mrs. Damon arriving for a party and greeted by the hostess, Ellen Turner. Mrs.

Damon -is played by Dorothe Barrett of Corvallis, the dean by Corvallis business man Bob Fishman orrd the hostess by Norma Steen of Albany. Just above, Professor Tommy Turner, played by Dave McCracken of Corvallis, and, Michael Barnes, played by Alec Terry Arnone of Adair Air Force station drown their sorrows. A fiery editorial has started a furor among the college trustees which is about to get them both thrown out of Midwestern. Curtain time is 8:15 p.mv at the ALT Theater, 320 West Tickets are available in Corvallis at Toney's House of Music or make reservation's by calling WAbash 6-361 1. LITTLE THEATER PHOTOS.

Extension Calendar October 17 -b Kings Road new roses on display. The general public is invited to attend the tour. Those who cannot attend the first stop are invited come to the Municipal Rose Garden for the last portion of the program. Story Hour Slated At Public Library Story hour for children will be' held in the Children's room of the Corvallis Public Library on Sat urday Pre-school children are invited to attend the story hour at 10:15 and children in the primary grades are invited to attend the story hour at 11:15. Perfect butter or margarine pats are easy to make when you cover the knife blade with transparent wrap before cutting the well-chilled stick.

the Masonic temple. fornia. Purpose of the trip will be to visit points of religious and educational interest. Vital Statistics BIRTHS (Good Samaritan) i CARMICHAEL To Mr. and aiph Carmichael, 719 South Fifth, a 7 pound 5 ounce girl at 37 p.m.

October 13. MAHAN To Mr. and Mrs. 77 pssn with of EiatUh-neti' Rose Society Plans Rose Tour Open to Public A tour of the rose plots on the Oregon State College Plant Pathology Farm and the Municipal Rose Garden in Avery Park has been arranged by the Corvallis Rose society for this coming Sun day afternoon. The tour will begin at 2 p.m.

at the Botany and Plant Pathology Farm ('4 mile the Van Buren Street Bridge on the old Albany Highway), where current rose mildew control experiments under the direction of Dr. I. W. Deep of Oregon State college will be viewed. At 3:30 p.m.

the Municipal Rose Garden at Avery park will be visited where the performance of the new roses planted and main tained bv the Corvallis Rose so ciety will be inspected. Over 50 varieties are now grow ing in Ike municipal garden, most of them new. Both of the 1961 A. A. R.

winners Pink Par-fait and Duet are among the (G Instruction Sales and Service In Our Corvallis Studio Private "Lessons Guitar Rental TOMMY LEONARD ACCORDION and GUITAR STUDIO 2110 S. Pacific Blvd. Albany Call Albany, WAbash 8-7174 p.m. at the home of Mrs. cole- man.

October 18 Falrplay Evening 7:30 p.m., Falrplay School. Mt. View, 10:00 a.m.. Grange Hall. Highland Way, 7:30 p.m., Love Mobile Recreation Room.

October 19 Alpine 10:30 a.m., M.E. uiurcn. riymouin 10:30 a.m., Plymouth Hall. October 20 Marys River :30 a.m.. E.U.B.

Hall. Smith Loop 8:00 p.m., borne of Mrs. Rich Guerber. October 21 Hoskins .1:30 a.m.. Clubhouse.

Delta Zeto Alumnae RUMMAGE SALE Woman' Club Building SATURDAY, OCT. 15 9:30 a.m. Wednesday, October 19 Tuesday, November 22 Monday, Jonuary 30 Wednesday, April THE FRIENDS OF MUSIC present their pnn HONEYCOMD" Hidden Treasure caps exclusiYS Flcniuml eup rim ixpandt, cantracltt to conform with tvery you male I loaMaasMsasaaasasnin SECOND SEASON OF CHAMBER MUSIC CONCERTS Four outstanding itrinj numblcr playing th masterpiece at chambar mutic th stag of Home Economies Auditorium, 8 p.m. CORVALLIS -OSC MUSIC ASSOCIATION presents Plcnium cups are soft, light, cpoj dry quickly keep high, rounded shape. Can be machine washed -won't shred, ever! Daintily covered with lined with.nylon tricot.

Drip-dry broadcloth sides and straps need ho ironing! Elastic front band can't cut or curl. 32-36A, 32-38B, C. oniy J95 ACima, pgimi fotvutTMm My is per' 'Mry Md Flt'r THE HUNGARIAN QUARTET All Beethoven program The fine arts quartet Hoydn, Rovel, Brohmi THE UNIVERSITY TRIO Beethoven, Finney, Schubert THE FELD QUARTET Moiort, Kodaly, Schumann The Minneapolis Symphony Orchestra Stonislaw Skrowaczewski, Conductor David Abel, Soloist Sunday, October 16, 3 p.m. OSC COLISEUM Belafonte Folk Singers, Nov. 17 Jorge Bolet, Jan.

9- Robert Shaw Chorale, Feb. 4 Tossy Spivakorsky, Apr. 7 Basil Rathbone, May 1 Donald Gramm, May 18 I ADMISSION BY MEMBERSHIP ONLY Membership Fee for the Series $6.00 Students and their spouses $3.00 No Tickets for Individual Concerts VYill Be Sold Tickets May Be Obtained at: Ray Hewitt, Treasurer, 195' Vera Drive, Corvallis OSC Music Department Office, Benton Hall 30 Box Office, Home Economics Auditorium on Oct. 19 FOUNDATIONS APPAREL PL 3-7243 124 S. 3rd 809 Westarn I.